When You Can't See the Answer

One of the techniques I use to try and keep my mind sharp (or at least not too dull) is to work Sudoku puzzles. These nine-square puzzles, with each square containing nine squares, are completed by placing the numbers 1-9 in each of the inner squares. The trick is that each number is to appear in any row or column only once.

What I have discovered about these puzzles is that sometimes my brain reaches a point that I simply can’t discern the next placement of a number. The solution to this dilemma for some is to cheat by turning to some answer key. Because I abhor the concept of cheating, I usually focus on something else for a minute or two (or longer). The result is often that the next placement is obvious when I return to the puzzle.

We have all experienced that same phenomenon when struggling to solve a math problem in school or reconcile a bank statement in real life. Most of us have discovered the resolution technique of walking away, taking a break, or sleeping on it. And yet, we are still amazed when we follow one of these steps and it works. I wonder why we limit the use of this type of problem-solving or assessment of a situation to puzzles and numbers. Is it just possible that issues involving people – conflicts in marriage or between friends; decisions related to strategies or methodologies in an organization; disruption and disagreements among co-workers – call for the use of a step back and refocus time before making a hasty decision or speaking some ill-advised words?

The situation may not involve personal conflict. Rather, it may be a time when the right decision must be made. Assessing the problem from all angles with various pairs of eyes at varying times may yield insight that was simply missed during the first look. Have you noticed that when a child is missing, a large number of people go out together to search an area? They may return to that same area a second or even third time in the hope of finding something they missed the first time.

Too often, when we can’t see the answer immediately, we either give up or make a decision without all the facts. I believe that all of us – individuals and organizations – must learn to take some time to refocus and allow our minds to both see and comprehend all that is happening. Based on a refreshed assessment, we will make better decisions with people and with critical issues. Maybe that is part of the truth of God’s Word when He states:

“Be still and know that I am God!”

(Psalm 46:10)

Some of the problems we will encounter today appear to be unsolvable at first glance. Taking a step back and refocusing upon God will give you a fresh look at the situation. That moment of refreshing may be all that is needed to move from not seeing to seeing the answer that God has for you.

(For at least the next two weeks beginning on June 16, I will not be posting on my blog. Instead, I will be having surgery for a knee replacement. It will be a time to refocus and recover. I do covet your prayers for a speedy and thorough recovery. I am blessed to have a very loving and supportive wife and family and a skilled surgeon.)